Sunday, February 6, 2011

The Bridgemaster Video

So a few years ago, I presented this sermon to my church back home. I have to admit I have not been a huge fan of any of the sermons that I have ever preached, yet God continues to do amazing things each and every time I stand to give a sermon. This sermon however, has gone down as one of my favorites. Today in church I began thinking about it again because they played the infamous Bridge Master Video.


The Bridge Master Video
December 27, 2009
LifeSong Church
            Before I begin, I want to warn you that this sermon isn’t the kind that I usually do. Not very much of it is actually my own words, rather words that have captivated my heart in a way that I couldn’t retell.  God is so good and I hope that this video and book captivate you too.  For now, here is the ever-popular, bridge master’s story:


            I had watched this video quite a few times before this year. It seems to constantly be one of those annoying forwards people are always doing through email-most of them I delete without even reading but this one captivated my heart each time I received it.   Each time I watched it, I was filled with the love for me that God possessed, shown through his sacrifice.  At school, I borrowed a book from a friend, God Came Near by Max Lucado.   Lucado pointed out that even though there are quite a few parallels in the crucifixion and the bridge master video like God having to sacrifice His son in order to save humanity and some hesitation near the end, there was a very important, often looked over difference. 
            Lucado alludes to Acts 22:22-23, “Men of Israel, listen to this: Jesus of Nazareth was a man accredited by God to you by miracles, wonders and signs which God did among you through him as you yourselves know.  This man was handed over to you by God’s set purpose and fore-knowledge; and you with the help of wicked men, put him to death by nailing him to the cross.” There is one key phrase in this passage that the bridge master video neglects to show.  GOD’S SET PURPOSE AND FORE-KNOWLEDGE! You see, the bridge master didn’t see it coming; he had no idea that his son was going to go down into that hole and that he would be faced with such a difficult choice.  If he had known, he like many of us probably would have quit his job in order to ensure not having to make this choice.  GOD KNEW-He knew from before Mary rode to Bethlehem on the donkey that His son was going to die on the cross.  He knew the pain and the suffering that His son would have to endure and yet when weighing the cost with His children spending eternity with Him, we won. Lucado puts it in a way that I just could not captivate,
“Jesus’ death was not the result of a panicking, cosmological engineer.  The cross wasn’t a tragic surprise.  Calvary was not an automatic response to a world plummeting towards destruction.  It wasn’t a patch-job or a stop-gap measure.  The death of the Son of God was anything but an unexpected peril.  No, it was part of a plan.  It was a calculated choice.  It was the Lords’ will to crush him.  The cross was drawn into the original blueprint.  It was written into the script.  The moment of forbidden fruit touched the lips of Eve, the shadow of a cross appeared on the horizon.  And between that moment and the moment that the man with the mallet placed the spike against the wrist of God, a master plan was fulfilled.  What does that mean? It means Jesus planned his own sacrifice. It means Jesus intentionally planted the tree from which his cross would be carved.  It means he willingly placed the iron ore in the heart of the earth from which the nails would be cast.  It means he voluntarily placed his Judas in the womb of a woman.  It means Christ was the one who set in motion the political machinery that would send Pilate to Jerusalem.  And it also means he didn’t have to do it-but he did.  It was no accident ---would that it had been.  Even the cruelest of criminals is spared the agony of having his death sentence read o him before his life even begins.  But Jesus was born crucified. … The ropes used to tie his hands and the soldiers used to lead him to the cross were unnecessary.  They were incidental.  Had they not been there, had there been no trial, no Pilate and no crowd, the very same crucifixion would have occurred.  Had Jesus been forced to nail himself to the cross, he would have done it.  For it was not the soldiers who killed him, nor the screams of the mob: It was his devotion to us.  So call it what you wish: an act of grace, a plan of redemption a martyr’s sacrifice.  But whatever you call it, don’t call it an accident.  It was anything but that. “
                        I have read this expert from the book so many times since I have originally read it and yet each time it still captivates me.  Do you realize how much God truly loves us? This is the season in which messages of his love are everywhere, but do you realize how much he loves us.  He would have nailed himself to the cross! I can’t think of anyone or even group of people that I would pierce long dull pieces of iron through my body to save. We often see the cross as the end of the story but in all of reality, the rest of the story was written around the cross-it being present before the rest. Isn’t that radical to think about?!  Like the bridge master, God knew the kind of people that he was killing his son to save. He knew he was being murdered for the lonely, angry, selfish, hurting and addicted. He was dying for the lowest of lows on the face of the earth and yet HE STILL CHOSE TO DIE! God’s love is amazing people…as if I sat at my computer for like half an hour just trying to put to words how amazing and I couldn’t come close.  It is as if every good thing put together in a blender, mixed up and then multiplied about a bazillion. That just may grasp it. 
                        One other characteristic that Lucado didn’t mention, but that bothers me is that every single person on that train goes on living their lives without even hearing of the sacrifice that saved their lives.  They didn’t even know that they were in danger and about died. They never heard of the boy who died to save them and the tremendous father who made a tough decision just for them.  Some of the passengers remained asleep while the entire video played out.  WE, as the church need to make sure that this is one sad difference between the bridge master’s story and that of our Savior’s.  For real, we have just come out of the Christmas season, one of the easiest seasons of the year to talk about our God and his sacrifice and yet how many of us filled conversations with Santa, where to get the toys on kids’ Christmas lists, Christmas lights and the annoying family that one must endure through family dinner? How many of us volunteered to say grace (I know I personally neglected the chore)? How many of us carried on a pleasant conversation with the people in the never ending line at the check-out, well how many, expect Mearl? How many of us invited someone to church with us through the holidays? How many of us told children the actual Christmas story and not just the one about visions of sugar plums?
                        Who are the sleeping passengers in our lives? Who are completely unaware of the price that was paid so that they can go on living their lives?  Who are those ignorant of God’s set for-knowledge? My mission for each of you is to add to your new year resolutions part 2009, add waking up one of the passengers to your list.  Tell someone of God’s unexplainable love-share the bridge master parable with him or her.  Enlighten them to the fact that Jesus planted the tree that would be carved into the cross. 
                        As we close in prayer, let God speak to each of you, He KNOWS the passengers that are sleeping in your life. He KNOWS the people that He has put in your life so you can wake them up.  He knows the people that you have been sitting by all through life without ever bothering to show them the truth.  Let God guide you to each one of these people.  I pray that we don’t let God’s sacrifice go as unheard as that bridge master’s that day. 

Friday, February 4, 2011

Convient Aquaintances or Real Relationships?

I had a great night tonight just playing Wally-Ball with some pretty cool and new people and then just hanging out with friends until 10pm. Seriously, it was a really good night and I am so fortunate to have these people in my life. However, the turning point of the night came when my close friend that I had been hanging out with decided it was her bedtime and that she was going back to her room. I had spent the majority of the night and afternoon with her so as I was walking back to my room I was trying to think of who may be available that I could hang out with.

As names of people and there whereabouts and current activities were skimming through my head, I began thinking about my relationship with each of the people. For the majority of them, I decided they were probably hanging out with some of their friends that I am never really around with or their "significant" others or are just people that I never really hang out with anyway. 

I realize that any relationship is two-sided and that it is my duty to keep up on friendships, but I am not getting into that right now. 

It is in my personality to always be second-guessing people's motives...seriously just ask any one of my close friends and they will tell you that I often even voice my insecurity. I have been thinking about how different my friend groups are just this year from last year and there are so many of them that have changed; some have disappeared all together, some have just changed and so many of them are completely new. Seriously, I have a handful of the same friends but even the majority of them have been altered in some way or form in the last twelve months. The question I think I am trying to get to through all of this is simply what motivates a friendship? More so what is the difference between a lasting friendship and one that is just here for a brief season?

I have realized that so many of our even close friendships are because of convenience. We live in the same building or same hometown: once we move to a new location, these friendships are often severed, ashes of memories only remaining.   We have the same classes, we tend to make friends especially if the other person is better in the subject than ourselves. I have seen so many people hanging out in lounges all the time together for a mere semester because one of them has no idea how to do the homework: once that class is completed, the friendship fails. I am assuming these roles to be that of what is considered a friendship and not a mere acquaintance. Living close to each other and having similar classes often triggers the beginning of a relationship that morphs into sharing meals and going on random expeditions.

What causes the relationship to stall at the end of the semester? Why does moving to a new location even if it is on the same campus and just a different people constitute reason for so many relationships to end? If someone worked for an entire semester on a beautiful painting that they loved; it would be highly unlikely for the artist to take the masterpiece to the burn pile out back and watch it flare up in flames. Yet, this is exactly what is happening to so many relationships. 

My main explanation is that we are a very lazy group of humanity. We are only willing to put into a relationship when there is some direct reward for us; like getting a better grade on a test or having someone to sit next to in a class where you know nobody. Once the relationship actually requires some for of work whether it be walking to the person's new room or calling them up once in awhile just to check in, we lose our motivation. It seems far more practical to just make friends within your new surroundings. 

I realize the fact that each relationship has its own season; that it is natural for relationships to alter and even die off with time; I just think that too many times we are rushing the calendar. We are missing out on some fantastic relationships because they take work and we don't find it necessary to actually work for them. It is important to let some relationships die and even kill off some, but eventually we are going to have to make the choice that some of them matter enough to fight for. 

As I have been writing this, faces continue to scroll across my mind; some of them bring tears to my eyes wondering what the friendship could have amounted to; others bring joy anticipating what is to come; even more bring fear, fear because I don't want to lose them, and am praying that the other party feels the same. 

I guess in closing, I just want to ask you to evaluate your list of friendships, calculate your motives, I beg you to not be the lazy person merely seeking out convenient acquaintances, instead invest in some real friendships. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there; don't be selfish and expect something in return; just seek out truthful and meaningful relationships....ones that you want to keep.

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